Today I started serious reorganization of my house. I started with the first place that I see when I come in my house – the “butler’s pantry”. It is a fancy name for a group of cabinets and a counter that sit off to the side of the kitchen.
Since we moved into the house I have wanted to use it as a “landing pad” – a place where I can organize what comes into my house and a place to gather things that I need as I leave.
Instead of a nice, happy place, it has morphed into the crash pad. EVERYTHING lands there and subsequently never moves and sometimes is never seen again! Well, today I figuratively gutted the entire area. I pulled out everything from the top cabinets. I found candy up there that we had hidden from the girls – years ago. I found light bulbs that were older than the house – I have no idea how they ended up in there. I found a candle holder for which I had been looking for almost 2 years. There were sticker books and activity books and coloring books the girls have long since outgrown, but for some reason we never got down for them. I am not sure why we never gave them out – so much lost fun and opportunity to create! It just never happened! Then I cleared out the 4 drawers. I found books for cell phones that I don’t even remember owning. I found cords for cell phones that have long since gone to cellular heaven. There were place mats that were purchased in China when we adopted our oldest that were still in the plastic covering. There was all of our house information that I thought was deep in DH’s office. Well, I made good on that one – they now are deep in there and out of the drawers. Now each of us has a drawer. If I find something laying around that is out of place, it is going to go in the drawer. If the drawer is not cleaned out by Sunday night – everything is going into the trash. Then I moved to the bottom cabinets. I am really, really embarrassed by that one. Let me preface with the statement that I was PartyLite consultant in a previous life – long before children. Please remember that I have boxes that I have never unpacked because they were filled with breakable items that were not appropriate to put out with young children in the house.
Let’s just say that I have enough candles to light the house if we have a power outage of say – 3 weeks! It is insane the amount of candles that I have. Now that the girls are older I can pull them out and start enjoying them. Hopefully I will use up that stash before they graduate from High School. And please, if I ever say I am getting ready to buy more candles – please, please, please remind me to look under my phone cabinet! After I pulled all the candles out of there – including some glassware candle holders that I will never use and will now be blessing someone else with in the near future – I put all the games that the girls have in there. They can now see all the games they own. We may actually be able to institute family game night again! That left me with another empty cabinet where I was able to put the candles and and store my coupon exchange boxes. I then moved over to another upper cabinet and got it about 75% cleaned out. I am hoping to finish that this evening, as well as finding homes for all the items that I wanted to keep, but did not belong on the
crash zone er, the landing zone. I got this done in about 4 hours. I am pooped! I am also ready to eat some lunch.
My goal for the next few days is…
~to clear out the rest of the 25% of the one cabinet,
~ totally reorganize the adjacent upper cabinet,
~clean off the counter under those 2 cabinets (commonly called the phone counter), and then
~pull out and organize the items that are on 1/2 of the bottom cabinet since the other half is neatly organized with my candles and coupons.
I can’t wait to see what DH and the girls say about the new areas. Oh – the best part – I filled up 1/3 of a bin with items to donate, a box of things to save for wedding gifts/Christmas gifts, and 2 huge garbage bags of trash.
I am not sure why it was easier today to get rid of stuff, to determine what is important and what is not. But it was. I was able to see a bigger picture of what I wanted to hold dear in my life and let go of things that are really not that important. I could visualize how I wanted my house to function. Maybe it is just time for me to let go of things from the past, which were symbolized by many items that I released today. It was like closing the cover of a book, knowing that the story is going to be continued in the next book waiting on your bedside table. The story is not over, it is just progressing, as it should. So will my life, if I relax and just let the chapters present themselves and if I am willing to let my myself immerse myself in the story of the here and now and not hang on to the past or worry about the future.